21 Questions to ask on Date Night

I came across this today and thought I’d share it with you all, and answer it as if my husband was asking me these questions.. I figured he’ll be bored at work tonight and this will give him an idea for a blog

Categories: Marriage

Just when you think you’ve come to know all there is to know about someone, you’ll find out that you’re just getting started! Marriage is a lifelong journey of discovery and communication is the only way to continue growing in your discovery of one another. Below are some questions that should start some great conversations! Turn off your phones and TV and ask your spouse these questions. I guarantee that you’ll both end up discovering something new!

1. If there was a movie about your life, what songs would you want on the soundtrack?

S. You are my Sunshine, Promises in the Dark, Anything Journey… Dr. Feelgood..

2. In that movie, what actor (past or present) would you want to play you?

S. Sandra Bullock.. she’s just the right amount of quirky, funny, serious and charming

3. If you could have named yourself, what name would you have chosen?

S. I like Shannon…

4. What is your favorite thing about yourself?

S. Used to be my hair… now.. My eyes

5. What is one thing you wish you could change about yourself?

S. My body from the neck to the knees

6. What was your biggest fear when you were a child?

S. Loosing my mother

7. What is your biggest fear now?

S. Besides the obvious (something happening to my kids).. I have a few.. Starving, rats, roaches, small enclosed places..

8. Besides our wedding and the day kids were born, what is your all-time favorite day?

S. Hmm… I’m not sure..

9. What would you do with the money if we won the lottery?

S. Disappear… for a very long time.

10. What would you do tomorrow if you lost your job and money and we had to start over?

S. Shit.. that’s old news.. I’ve started over too many times in my adult life.. it’s just another day.

11. When you were a kid, who was your biggest hero?

S. My mother of course

12. Who is your biggest hero today?

S. Will always be her… I only wish I could be half the woman she was

13. What is your greatest regret?

S. Having to tell her goodbye on the phone and not in person.

14. What is one thing you’d like to accomplish by this time next year?

S. To be happy.

15. If you won a free vacation to any place on earth, where would you want to go?

S. Bora Bora

16. What was your first nickname?

S. Brat

17. What is your earliest childhood memory?

S. Taking cover from the rain in the dog house with my sister Jodi and our mom hollering out the back door for us to get inside.

18. What was the moment when you laughed harder than you’ve ever laughed?

S. Oh Lord… I laughed pretty darn hard at being hit in the head w/ a frozen ham.

19. If you could write one new law that everyone had to obey, what law would you create?

S. No driving slower then the posted speed… that just pisses me off

20. What’s a new hobby you’d like to try out?

S. Traveling

21. Besides marrying me…what’s the greatest thing that has ever happened to you?

S. My babies…


There’s more then meets the eye…

The other night I was sitting on my couch watching TV when my big furry baby boy started getting a case of the crazies.  You know.. when their eye’s get huge and they start twitching and running a NASCAR race around the house for no reason…Well, I started teasing him through the slits in the coffee table and he climbed up and laid down looking at me.. this is what I saw



Yes I know.. he’s so cute!!!  At the same time that I’m looking at this adorable face my husband who is sitting on the side on the love seat starts giggling… he snaps a picture and show’s me…  This is what he saw



“If I fits.. I sits”…lol

Proof Hollywood is Out of Ideas

So I came across this article today about sequels that Hollywood is in the process of filming this year.  It reaffirmed to me that my suspicions were correct, that Hollywood is out of original ideas.  Don’t believe that?  Well you just might when you see this list of remakes they are planning on doing…

6) Beverly Hills Cop 4.  It has been listed before that Eddy Murphy holds the “sequel” record in Hollywood and after you see that he is on this list twice, you’ll have to admit it’s true.  Think about it, Nutty Professor, Beverly Hills Cop, Shrek, Dr. Doolittle, 48 Hours.. and you’ll see he’s in yet another sequel further down this list!

5) Triplets!  Can’t think of what this is a sequel too, well.. Twins of course.. starring Arnold Schwarzenegger and Danny Devito.  Well this remake is going to include, yup, you guessed it.. Eddy Murphy as their long lost 3rd brother!


4) is Army of Darkness  2 (Evil Dead 4).  Now I know my husband is excited about this one.  He’s a big Bruce Campbell fan.   Me personally… I could do without.

3) Beetlejuice 2… yup, and Michael Keaton is in talks to be our favorite undead ghoul with serious sexual frustrations. … Can’t help it.. but maybe Miley will twerk on him?? lol

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2) Blade Runner 2… and yes, Harrison Ford has expressed interest in reprising his role… I guess when you get to be his age in Hollywood you can’t be overly choosy on your roles anymore if you want to continue working..


and finally…

1)  TOP GUN 2… I feel the need.. the need to throw up!  I didn’t care for the original (I really am not a fan of Tom Cruise at all)..I’m gonna have to steal the entire paragraph on this one..

Hollywood has been threatening to make a sequel to Top Gun for years, but when the original film’s director, Tony Scott, died last year, it seemed he took the idea of a sequel with him. Which was probably just as well, because gathering the entire original cast of Top Gun back together would just seem like a bunch of terrifyingly old men alongside the comically un-aged Tom Cruise. The rivalry between Maverick and Iceman would seem particularly cruel, considering Tom Cruise is still Tom Cruise and Val Kilmer now resembles an unbaked croissant.

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However, we should have known that a tragic death isn’t enough to keep Maverick on the ground, and producer Jerry Bruckheimer announced that the film is moving forward, because after unleashing The Lone Ranger on us, Bruckheimer is content to just remake movies that everyone liked 30 years ago”

yup.. this pretty much sums it up!  Ya know, say what you will about the Twilight series.. she had an original idea.. sparkly vampires that didn’t burst into flames in the sun was an original idea..!

Read more: http://www.cracked.com/quick-fixes/6-movies-that-are-inexplicably-getting-sequels-decades-later/#ixzz2j7K4KAAv

Lacy’s Journal now On Sale On Amazon

AAAEvery girl dreams of a picture perfect life: married to the man of their dreams, the perfect house, perfect job, and perfect children. What more could anyone want? Taken for granted by the man of her dreams of 17 years, 3 kids with activities that consume more time than expected, and a job that is just a job. Lacy wanted more. Enter Jackson, the police officer working the case at her office and is now the new security guard there. Jackson is everything her husband Craig isn’t: fun and attentive. It also doesn’t hurt he’s super sexy. Lacy sees Jackson as a friend, but is that how he sees her? Strange things start to happen that Lacy can’t explain-like her house and car being broken into and the feeling she’s being followed. It’s she being targeted? Why? Jackson vows to keep her safe but can he? Craig seems clueless, or is he? Jackson seems one step behind the stalker but can he be caught before something fatal happens?
Sex, lies, kidnapping and murder…a world in which Lacy never expected to take over her life.
Read the intimate thoughts of Lacy’s journal… the perfect life.




Don’t forget… Lacy’s Journal is still for sale on Amazon for the low price of $2.99!  Buy yours today!


Bestiality is the New Rage?

So I’ve totally noticed a trend with bestiality over the last few years here in America and I have to wonder why?  I know it’s been around forever, (anyone remember the Donkey Show?… not that I’ve ever seen it)..The first show that really pops into my mind is

Family Guy.  family-guy-brian-older-girl


Now don’t get me wrong, I love Family guy.. it’s one of my favorite shows of all time.. but I always think to myself.. “Eww.. what the hell” when they show Brian kissing on some woman.  This is the main reason I wouldn’t let my kids see this show.. you can’t explain this to younger kids.

The next thing is the new Kia Soul Commercial..



In the latest commercial on these dancing hamsters, we see them shaping up, getting ready for the red carpet.  When they arrive to the premier they step out in tailored suits all trimmed up and the beautiful women on the side behind the ropes are giving the very approving eye.. again.. eww

Now what made me think up this blog today is the latest episode of American Horror Story : Coven.  This show is amazing.. simply amazing.. but in the last episode it showed Queenie luring the Minotaur in the back yard to a secluded area where she (being the human VooDoo doll) starts masturbating trying to get him aroused.. she’s trying to get him to “love” her..


I mean.. even little Laura Ingalls Wilder grew up to have her nipple bit off by her beloved dog in Nip/Tuck!!



Peanut Butter Half Pint????  Say it aint so!

I just don’t get it!  Am I missing something?  Well, even if I am missing something, I’m going to continue missing it…

Best Band Ever…

This of course is strictly just my opinion so please don’t think this is something that is written in the books for the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame or any other Music Genre Hall of Fame… It’s just me sitting around watching YouTube videos because honestly.. work is dead right now.  Anyways.. back to what I was talking about.  I was born in the early 70’s (yes I’m getting old).. and while the 70’s had some good stuff come out of it.. the 80’s kicked ass.  Nothing.. and I mean NOTHING has come close to what the 80’s accomplished!  We started it all, the Glam Bands, the Heavy Metal bands, the Boy Bands.. we did it all!  I will admit though, that most of the bands that kicked ass in the 80’s originated in the 70’s and the one I’m going to name as the best band ever was formed in 1973 but they didn’t reach their height of popularity until the early 80’s.  This is going to surprise a lot of my friends because they are going to say that I will say the greatest band of all time is Motley Crue (and while that is true for the most part, I think this other band is just a slight bit better then they are).. The band I’m speaking of is……..drum roll please………….



yup, Journey.  Their songs are fantastic, timeless and everyone knows them.  One of the reasons Steve Perry has quit touring with the band (the main reason) is he had to have full hip replacement in 1998 making it hard for him to keep up with the grueling schedule of a traveling touring band.  He still sings and has recorded many songs.  He’s known as the hardest working retired musician ever.  He recently lost his love to cancer and shortly after underwent a cancer scare himself.  His voice is timeless, their songs are amazing and you just can’t say anything bad about them…. well you could, but I can’t.


Now saying that.. MOTLEY CRUE is unfreakingtouchable when it comes to their show’s their music, their lifestyle.  They are the epitome of Rock & Roll baby…